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For those of you who have stopped by to say a word or two, I appreciate it. Forgive me that I will not be replying all your comments individually - I do not have the strength to do that. Thank you for taking the time to talk to a stranger.
posted by heartstorm at 7:53:00 PM
8 Comments:
Losing your love is not everything. You still have your friends and family who love you deeply.
Get yourself busy. This way, you will not have time to think of your ex. You will not have energy to remind yourself not to think of your ex.
Lastly, time heals. Stay strong.
It hurts not being able to be wif ur love ones.. it hurts when u can onli c her frm apart n yet not touching her.. it hurts even more when i knw u can love her yet not being beside her..
Take things easy.. to c ur love ones being happy is more den u can ask fer..
things will take a better turn .. jia you~
I am just a nobody in your life but I just got to let this out.
I suggest that you and your wife seek marriage counselling if both of you intend to carry on the marriage.
Surely, there is a way to rekindle the flame?
Surely, you do remember the wedding vows you'd made?
I guess you do understand that you & pinkdaisy (I suppose that is the lady whom you'd been seeing secretly) can never be together, unless both of you leave your spouses.
Is that what you really want?
Or should I say, would that be possible in the first place?
I don't know but I do hope that you would have no regrets in whatever decision you choose.
I wish you all the best.
And may you remember to cherish the ones you have.
while reading ur entries i feel for u too.
i know how it feels to want love yet not able to.
but somethings are beyond our control.
the best thing to do is let time heal and move on if u have to
whatever the case u must stay strong. remember ur not alone
friends and family love u too.
STAY STRONG!
u can de!
and I tot I was all alone..
I totally understand how you feel.
I'm in this too!
The hurt is too much to bear.
The intensity of the our love is too much too bear too!
I admire you for ur courage.
Me and him are still holding on.. afraid of losing each other.. but at the same time, afraid of fighting a losing battle.. afraid of the hurt to our other halves.
*hugs* stay strong.
I've been through this, actually still am quite tortured by it, half a year after the event. I think, looking at it objectively, no one can say that you being with her will guarantee happiness. Don't be offended, but I think you probably know this: no one can guarantee that you won't find another even if you're with her.
Work with what you have, instead of looking at what you don't. You can and should work on what you have now, with your wife, especially if you have kids.
Although I ain't in this kind of situation which you're in, but I feel the same way like you do. My heart wrecks the same, my mind just races against the time each time I think of him.
However, mine wasn't as complicated. I strongly believe that love is something words can't account for. Only the hearts feel it and the mouth doesn't speak for it.
Stay strong dude. I read yr entire blog, it's heart-wrenching. Believe in faith, it makes all things possible, regardless of religion.
Do continue yr letters to her. I'd be reading all the time.
yes you are hurting, and so is pinkdaisy.
but whatever you two are doing now is hurting the most innocent of all; your spouses and kids, if you have any.
shame on you two! You made marriage vows seem like some kind of joke.
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